It wasn’t until I was into my 30 something stage of life that this paradox became an understanding of a truth for me. You see, most of my life to this point had been a steep downward helix of codependent behaviors and drama; I so desperately wanted to be loved and treated with ...
I have been crossdressing to some extent for most of my cognitive life. When I was a child, I found various items of clothing compelling for reasons I did not understand. I remember when my mother had bought me a sought-after pair of penny loafers for Easter, the day when we ...
Eight months…it’s been eight months since the amazing day of getting my first ever makeover at Ulta, then shopping, and finally topping it all off by meeting up with a CDH friend at a brewery to actually talk in person about anything and everything – all night l...
I hadn’t given much thought to crossdressing the last 26 years. I can’t tell you why I quit, but I knew my belief in Christianity had been a large influence. That was back in 1988; I was 28 years old. Life passes and the year was 2014, I had separated from my wife and moved t...
Don’t let it pass you by, give your femme side some freedom. As I sit here, I’m thinking of a good friend who is fighting for his life right now. There are all the things he won’t get done. The beloved sports car, which I helped him repair a few years ago, but was put on ho...
Like many of you, I’ve had the urge to dress up in all the fun and exciting clothing that cis women get to enjoy ever since I was a child. Lovely pink dresses, satin ribbons, and the cutesiest hairbands. These were all things I wished that I’d had the chance to experience as ...
If you are here and reading this article, I can safely assume like myself, you are enamored with dressing in clothes and accessories traditionally associated with women. We are all at various stages on this journey. Some of us have recently discovered our feminine traits and are ...
I started Crossdressing in my teenage years. I would sneak into Mum’s room when she was not home and try on some clothes; loved the feel of Satin and Silk clothes. This Continued when I moved out of home, but I am ashamed to say (now) that when I lived with female flat mates, I...
A Short History of Crossdressing Being something of a student of human nature, I’m also a firm believer that we haven’t changed all that much for many thousands of years. Ten thousand years ago people were just as smart and clever as we are today, the difference? It’s due p...
LIVE SESSIONS Episode 2 – with Sophie and Char with guest member Aija Pince Sunday 27th September 10am (PST) When we choose to live and present ourselves as a woman, we change a great many aspects of our life. We know very well what it’s like to live as a man in this worl...
The beginning of Erin only started eight years ago, later in my life. I was 33 years old at the time. It all started with my ex-wife’s clothing, trying them on. This happened while she was at work. At first, my feelings were no, I shouldn’t, and it changed to yes. I remember ...
Many times in my life I’ve had a case of the “I shoulds”. This was never truer than when it came to being transgendered and crossdressing. “I should” have a separate male and female persona. “I should” not wear that, it’s not me. &#...
It is comforting to know that we are not alone in our desire, this need to feel or present as feminine. Whether it is occasionally, regularly, fully, or partially. For some, their fem persona is the opposite of their male persona. For others such as myself, the only difference...
Baby, We’ve Come A Long Way by Amy Myers Back in about 1965 when I was just starting to experiment with the thrill of dressing up in women’s clothes, the world was a different place. We were isolated by our love of this pastime. Something inside us we can’t ex...
The following is a poem I wrote one day, as I was rationalizing about my crossdressing on New Year’s Eve. Carolyn Kay’s – Closet Thoughts Another year starts on this beautiful day, and if you read on I have something to say. I have seen more than sixty of these days co...
Are you Proud, Ashamed, or somewhere in between of being a Crossdresser? Some might find it an easy answer, but for most of us, I don’t think so. Like many aspects of this life, the truth is more muddled. It is for me, and it has evolved over time. Oh yes; for most of my life, ...
I attempted to communicate the feminine side of me to my first wife. I am sure my attempts were feeble and no doubt unlearned. How could I help her understand about me what I didn’t understand about myself, had no objective evidence to prove it, and was such an antithesis t...
In response to Vanessa Law’s forum query, “Where Are You Heading in 2020,” I answered as follows. 1) I will spend more time here at CDH. The time I regularly spend here has helped me be more at peace with my femme essence. So, growth in my inner woman would profit by “h...
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and how it changed my life Let me start by defining Fear: Fear is an emotion and as such can be controlled. It can exist at many levels with varying degrees of effect on our lives and how we behave. It could sit quietly in the background until the switch is flipped by a visual, a...
That was a question I was asked recently while in conversation about living outside the box I had not considered this question consciously before, so I took pause for a minute to consider my response. I have been a social person for as long as I can remember, and I also place hig...
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Shopping En femme for the First Time January 19, 2021 Hi everyone! It’s Sarah here. I am a 53 year old married MTF crossdresser who recently went out shopping en femme to the mall for the first time! I was very nervous, but once I went through with it the whole experience was exciting and liberating. My wife was away visiti...
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Committed to Transition January 17, 2021 It’s begins with self-love – a connection between heart and mind This is about my personal experiences, which have brought me to where I am today, happier with myself, my life, everything and everyone in it. Slightly more than four years ago my life begin to shift. In...
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Mourning for yourself January 16, 2021 The title may appear to make no sense at all when you first read it, but let me explain how we can find ourselves doing exactly just that in our present life Describing going through transition as emotional and traumatic, could sound a little like an understatement to many enteri...
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