Does that make me a Nobio? I created a new word Nobio for the purpose of this article. A term to describe someone like myself that cannot be defined accurately through science. I’m not sure how others will perceive it, but it emerged while reviewing the text that flowed as I ty...
My wife and I own a small farm. She works for a government department, and I work part time locally. Because of the nature of her work, there is much she cannot share with me. Likewise, when I have counseled others in the past, I can’t share with her what the details were a...
They say with age comes wisdom. It also brings a confluence of memories and wishes. For those of us who see the world as being more than male and female it typically brings more heartache and unanswered questions. I know that I’m part of the new 40 having just turned 60, but as...
Since my first article, not much has changed between my wife and me. She is still accepting but not overly supportive. I am allowed to get dressed up each evening for a couple of hours after the kids go to bed. As I work from home on Fridays, I get to have 6 hours dressed while t...
Breathing is an essential and natural thing that we all do from the moment we enter this world. What is more fascinating is that today, most people do not breathe in a way that is good for their health and longevity of life. It is also one part of life that cannot be monetised, o...
Having the support from my wife’s family has been a great help. I see them as very caring people, plus they’ve taught me much through the years. Prior, my ex-girlfriends were not, their families put me through so much hell. I was rudely asked to be a real man, nearly gett...
I know from personal experience that this happens on many different levels and reasons, in all forms of creativity. So what is creativity and why does this occur, especially when carried out with one other person or many? By definition The word creativity is a noun that is descri...
That time of year is approaching again. Far too often, we go about our daily lives –not giving a thought to how we are able to do so as freely as we do. But a few times each year we are prompted to stop and reflect on the sacrifices made by others that has given us the free...
The greatest expression, of the grandest version, of what is emerging through and as you, is the soul’s purpose, your purpose. This is where true freedom lives. If we ponder what is natural on the planet even for a few minutes, we soon begin to see that nothing is random. Nothi...
There is an event that I believe all young crossdressers should have someday: “Sweet Sixteen.” Many of these parties are currently in style; a ritual to begin the transition to adulthood. In Latin America, there are “quinceañera” parties, to celebrate a g...
We all want to be accepted, right? Of course we do. Over the last 30 years of being out in public I’ve seen some drastic shifts in how we are viewed. Believe me, it’s much easier now than way back then, with a few exceptions. For the most part as a community, we are m...
My sisters, I thought to write about my own particular journey. It is an individual odyssey in many ways but with very similar issues to look at. Yesterday was another momentous step for me, which for a moment, left me breathless. I’d packed away what was left of my male clothe...
Issue II I learned long ago that I’m never going to be 5’6” and 120 pounds and fit into a size 6 (or smaller sized) dress. My hair isn’t going to glow and be long, my complexion to die for, or my bust the envy of women and men alike. I’m never going to be able to wear a...
The Burden of Lying (He/She – Her/Him) Until almost yesterday I have lived the entirety of my life as a lie Barely passing as a sweet boy in a man’s world ...
I’ve been blessed to be your Managing Editor for over two years. Believe me when I say, “I’ve read it all.” I’ve enjoyed my time being in the background, helping to give voice to so many of you that have important stories to tell. I created the Hodgepodge column to publ...
Transcendence to the self What has flying got to do with self-acceptance? And does acceptance come in two parts? You might think it very strange to pose these two questions? If you can manage to read through and get to the end, I’ll try my best to answer these questions fro...
I am glad that I have my three younger sisters in my life. Growing up and being the oldest, and only son in the family, I knew I had to live with it and did. My sisters were aware there was something different about me growing up. I wasn’t the typical masculine rough and to...
Anecdotal v. Scientific! My recent preoccupation (yes, I admit it) with the similarities between natural women and heterosexual crossdressers was triggered by an article published on the https://www.mycdlife.com website hosted by Gabrielle Hermosa. In her explanation of th...
My life as Liz Michelle, I admit was rough at first. It was a struggle as a young boy to find my true self on the inside. I felt that I was transgender in a way even at the age of 5 or 6, keeping it to myself. It was when everything started to come out and my mom witnessed...
Come on girls, I want to know what are the stockings that you really enjoy wearing (I’m assuming you DO enjoy them!) Although there is a vast choice out there when it comes to hosiery, I bet the majority will say either black or fully fashioned nylons Those seem to be the f...
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