acceptance – Crossdresser Heaven

Early Days Out and About

Aurora Lynette Eden November 11, 2023 Crossdressing Experiences 20

I provide here for you a review of my early experiences that may be helpful to my sisters in this group. It has been several decades since I first ventured outdoors while dressed. In those days, I went by the name Jill, mostly due to the character Jill in Charlie’s Angels, ...

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The psychology of crossdressing: Why do you dress like a woman?

Marie Claire October 16, 2023 Hodgepodge 27

You’ve probably considered seeking psychological help. “I’m a man but I like feminine things. Why? Is this normal? Do I have to accept myself or “cure” this?” We tend to naturally like some things and dislike others. Environmental aspects can a...

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How Important Is “Passing?”

Trace Whitaquer August 21, 2023 Crossdresser Support and Advice 74

I am tall, standing well over 6 feet. I have a mustache that I’ve had since my freshman year in college, and I’m very reluctant to shave it off, and probably never will. I also have big feet and have never found women’s shoes that fit comfortably or are even bearable. The q...

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How I Take Care of My Health

Ayre Kar May 1, 2023 Hodgepodge 8

Since I have become me, I have also learned how to take better care of my body, mind, and spirit. I look good now, appearing 20 years younger, a slim, and attractive person. My skin is youthful, very soft and smooth all over, almost as soft as a baby’s skin. I owe it to the die...

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6 Years On……..

April (Pacific Princess) January 12, 2023 Crossdresser Support and Advice 12

This is my second attempt at writing this, but my first was consumed by technology – I think I must be a Luddite. It’s now been 6 plus years since I started to crossdress again. 6 years of exploring who I am and who I want to be. 6 years of finally figuring out that I am ...

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Silent Discrimination – A Curse or a Blessing!

Ms. Catherine Anne Vos August 31, 2022 Hope and Light 15

They say the eyes are the windows to your soul. How far that can be taken as truth is yet to be seen but let me get through this, and it’s my hope you understand the complexity of that statement. If you look at the accompanying picture, what do you see? A person having a cup of...

My Journey So Far…

Michelle Liefde July 28, 2022 Advice and Encouragement, Crossdresser Support and Advice 35

Four years ago, I joined my first online transgender/crossdressing community, Crossdresser Heaven. Like so many others, taking that first step of joining an online space was fraught with indecision, fear, and anxiety. I asked myself: will I find others that I can really talk with...

Could This Be Our Future?

Rochelle Winters June 1, 2022 Crossdresser Support and Advice 24

We slowly become aware that it will come to the surface eventually. We know this now, right? Sometimes, we were aware in our earliest memories. Sometimes, in our adolescence or in early adulthood – those private thoughts and feelings that we push aside because we cannot pro...

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Camryn’s Keystone Chronicles, 2022 (Part 1)

Camryn Occasionnel May 14, 2022 Crossdressing Experiences 52

Well, I did it! After a year of meticulous and detailed planning with my mentor, traveling companion, and all-around BFF Beverly (of CDH), we drove almost 600 miles to Harrisburg, Pa., and attended the 2022 Keystone Conference! And it was everything I had hoped it would be, and t...

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Who are we?

Moira Stuart April 13, 2022 Crossdressing and the Family 17

I took the picture accompanying this article with the Snapchat My Twin filter. It makes me look decidedly younger and prettier than I really am. I start with this because I did the same with my previous Crossdresser Heaven article and received flattering responses. I do not want ...

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Best Coffee Ever

Stephanie Aston March 21, 2022 Crossdressing and the Family 43

Stephanie: I am putting pen to paper to share a recent milestone and life changing experience. I had a full weekend planned to celebrate my 60th birthday, but it became much more than that. My 60th birthday celebration included a lovely open house party on Saturday and time with ...

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What It Is Like To Be Transgendered

Nichole Poet February 27, 2022 Hodgepodge 29

Being transgendered is like being blessed with the most wonderful gift in the entire world, yet simultaneously condemned by an incredible curse. It’s a blessing because transgendered men and women see the world from a perspective which no one else can. It’s a curse be...

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A New Friendship

Christy SO November 30, 2021 Advice and Encouragement 19

You want to talk about a friendship that becomes so strong you can’t help but smile? It is the friendship that ensues at the most important time of a Crossdresser or Transgender girl’s life. Yes, I am talking about when they feel like they can trust you and tell you that they...

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A French Aristocratic Crossdresser, the Chevalier D’Eon

Amy Myers September 10, 2021 Hodgepodge 6

Part three of an irregular series. “A French Aristocratic crossdresser, Chevalier d’Eon.” This time we delve into the life of a French Aristocrat, Chevalier d’Eon, who lived through some tumultuous times in his country’s history. He lived from 1728 to 1810, quite a long...

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Changing my Perspective

Brianna Rose September 2, 2021 Your Weekly Reset 50

Hello to all the fantastic ladies that live inside this beautiful platform. I ask for your patience and understanding as I ramble on a bit about a topic that has been on my mind. I have been grappling with my feelings about meeting and possibly even dating men. The more I have be...

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Negotiated Limitations

Moira Stuart August 28, 2021 Crossdressing and the Family 40

“You’re not a girl, but you are girly,” said my wife. I looked up from my crossword, puzzled about what had motivated her comment. She was pointing at my legs. In accordance with our negotiated rules, I wore guy clothes in front of her, but I had absentmindedly double-c...

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Fork in the Road

Billie Jean August 20, 2021 Crossdressing and the Family 43

As I sit here (in my LBD, wig, light make-up, and my favorite heels) on the cusp of my 68th birthday, I’ve come to the place, as I explained to my grandkids, known as the fork in the road. Which road do I take? I’m in relatively good heath, have been married for 35 year...

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A Place to call Home

Sabrina (Brina) MacTavish August 16, 2021 Brina's Corner 42

Dabbing my toes in the water of femininity. Is this what I’m really doing or am I a creature of unknown origins? A collection of thoughts and actions that show neither a true path nor a divergence from safety and the familiar. Enough with the existentialism. Just what the heck ...

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Working Boundaries

Peta Mari July 15, 2021 Advice and Encouragement 19

My wife and I own a small farm. She works for a government department, and I work part time locally. Because of the nature of her work, there is much she cannot share with me. Likewise, when I have counseled others in the past, I can’t share with her what the details were a...

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That Ship has Sailed

Sabrina (Brina) MacTavish July 4, 2021 Brina's Corner 69

They say with age comes wisdom. It also brings a confluence of memories and wishes. For those of us who see the world as being more than male and female it typically brings more heartache and unanswered questions. I know that I’m part of the new 40 having just turned 60, but as...