Meeting my current wife seven years ago gave me hope. I was divorced for a year at the time and was in the dumps—big time. Relationships didn’t last at all before I met her. It had been terrible, and I thought about giving up, throwing in the towel. Encouragement came wit...
I’ve been meaning to write an article for some time now. But the moment I try to write something, it just goes out of the window, and I’m left staring at the wall or a blank screen, trying to catch the proverbial train that just left the station. On the other hand, standi...
It’s been awhile since I’ve contributed an article. I think part of being the Managing Editor is letting others use their voice instead of taking up space. I also see the trends of the current and more active members. After nearly three years on CDH and two on T...
On Saturday August 1st, Tokyo Closet Ball had its first online streaming show, no live audience. The entire show can be viewed on YouTube. To promote the show, one of our performers asked everyone to answer a few questions, which he would then post on his blogsite. We also had th...
I don’t know about you ladies, but this Coronavirus has put quite a damper on my April time. For me, she has always been a release, but she has also been a way to express myself out in public. That option has been taken away from me for months by this virus, and I miss it. ...
Introduction This is something I wrote in the very early stages of my transition; at a stage where I was becoming increasingly focused on my life path up to that point. I realised that my life had followed a pattern, which had been going with the flow, regardless. I believe wha...
If you have followed my posts on CDH, you will have read about my inner war. It started when I was a teen. Living on the outside as a tough guy athlete and never showing emotions because that is a weakness just like all the other males in my family. On the inside, I was sensitive...
For as long as I can remember, I have been fascinated with certain women’s clothing. I think it really started in junior high school. A friend of mine would always dress in heels or boots, a tight-fitting leather jacket, sometimes leather pants or a skirt. I was already...
My five steps to overcoming a s*** storm, or adversity Arguably, the thing each of us wants more than everything else, at our deepest inner level, is to live our lifetime in happiness. To experience freedom of choice; enough abundance financially and in other areas, to cover all ...
What Are You? And you only have two seconds to reply. . . The day was sunny and warm as we walked hand in hand from the parking lot to the store entrance; the cat call was loud as the pickup approached from behind us, heyyyy howya dooooin ladies? – the voice echoed clear an...
It all started when I was conceived. My mother had two older sons and this time she wanted a girl. My mother’s energy was surrounding me and forming my spirit while in her womb. Later in life, I will come to realize that this was one of the greatest gifts that I could receive. ...
My Amazing wife and I were snuggled up on the couch soaking up Netflix when two head lamps appeared in front of our home, but the moved independently. Two large and polished motorcycles rolled up in front of our house with their engines rumbling low, they stopped and their riders...
Solace of You I think back to the years of my youth and my first discovery of dressing. How I can’t forget the progression of my dressing and how it changed me. At first it was a wave of excitement, a taboo, when I tried on my first piece of clothing. Then I went through a ...
This article is inspired by a reply I wrote in a thread. I stopped having two personas years ago and now I’m just me. So when I say “we” I’m talking about how I was before. Most of us grew up with the notion that some ways of thinking and acting are solidl...
What we see as a truth, is only a truth for us when we believe that it is true, otherwise it is simply an opinion or idea. Selfishness is not living as one wishes to live it is asking others to live, as one wishes to live. ...
Before you tell me that you have no idea why you and I cross dress, please allow me to present some ideas I have developed over many decades while struggling with this topic. What do I know? I know that cross dressing is ever-present and is experienced throughout the world. From ...
Ellie’s Story My earliest recollection of wearing women’s clothing was when I was a young child of 5 or 6. My family was on vacation in Minnesota vising my Aunts, Uncle, cousins and others. I got into my mom’s suitcase and put on a bra and girdle then paraded around in the ...
So many of us here love hearing about other’s experiences as we share stories of our journeys en femme. I first started dressing at 15 with my sisters clothing when I was home alone. I knew at an earlier stage that I was different because I preferred playing with her dolls ...
With my heart pounding, I did the quick calculations to see if I had time after my shower. Could I get to my secret shoebox, find panties, slip them on and get dressed for work before someone walked in? This was the process almost every day. Sometimes I made it, other days someth...
I spent my life from around 14 until 48 hiding my feminine side, worried that people would find out, and even running for cover if my doorbell went, until I ended up clinically depressed and needed to seek the help of a councilor before doing something I regretted. After the firs...
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Meeting my Current wife October 20, 2020 Meeting my current wife seven years ago gave me hope. I was divorced for a year at the time and was in the dumps—big time. Relationships didn’t last at all before I met her. It had been terrible, and I thought about giving up, throwing in the towel. Encouragement came wit...
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Living a Childhood Dream – A Ballet Story October 16, 2020 Like many of you, I’ve had the urge to dress up in all the fun and exciting clothing that cis women get to enjoy ever since I was a child. Lovely pink dresses, satin ribbons, and the cutesiest hairbands. These were all things I wished that I’d had the chance to experience as ...
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The Convenient Women: A Response to a Dismissive Transsexual October 13, 2020 I’m sharing here an essay I wrote in response to a note a I received recently from a pre-op transsexual that included, among other things, the following sentence fragment: “…but you are just a crossdresser; you can’t possibly understand what I am feeling about that.” Ob...
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